Dogs · Question
When a dog avoids eye contact and turns its head away, what is it trying to do?
Answer
Avoid conflict or calm the situation
The story behind the answer
Avoid conflict or calm the situation is correct because, in canine body language, a direct stare can be threatening. By breaking eye contact and turning the head, a dog signals appeasement—“I’m not a threat”—to reduce tension and prevent escalation.
This behavior is one of several “calming signals” described by trainer Turid Rugaas, alongside lip licking, yawning, sniffing the ground, and slow movement. Dogs use these signals with other dogs and with people, especially when they’re stressed by close approaches, hugs, or cameras. If you see this, help your dog by turning your body slightly, softening your gaze, and giving space. Memory tip: Averted eyes avert fights, or Turn to turn down tension.